Reality Bytes- Part 7

“I don’t like these cold, precise, perfect people, who, in order not to speak wrong, never speak at all, and in order not to do wrong, never do anything.” Henry Ward Beecher

The Housewives of Orange County reunion has long since gone. The controversy however continues. Why can’t we just let this go? It is just a T.V. show. We’re all intelligent enough to know even reality shows aren’t always what they appear. So what’s the big deal? What’s with the restraining order? Why does Jay continue surfacing in the media? Is there a hidden agenda? Fame? Fortune?
As I follow this story, the answers become clear.
I remain firm in my belief that Jay and Gretchen were in, and had been in a relationship since January 2008. Not only does Gretchen continue to deny this, she has since made some very serious allegations against Jay. Now knowing she lied about the relationship, she lost her credibility with many people. With all that she has put out there, she has yet to offer any explanations or proof to substantiate her accusations. Is Jay’s agenda that of fame or fortune? I don’t believe so. We all want to maintain our character and integrity, what better way to do that than have the lies and accusations put to rest?

Gretchen Rossi’s ‘Ex’ to Take Lie Detector

An upcoming court showdown has just taken a dramatic new turn for Real Housewives of Orange County star Gretchen Rossi.

Gretchen has taken out a temporary restraining order against Jay Photogiou, who may or may not have been her secret lover, depending on whose version of the story you believe. She claims Jay threatened to kill her and her dogs and burn down her house.The two are headed to court on March 27.

Now RadarOnline.com has learned exclusively that Jay will take a lie detector test and present the results in court! Jay told RadarOnline.com that he will answer the key question: Did you threaten to kill Gretchen?

Gretchen, 31, filed the original restraining order request March 6. The Reality TV star has had more drama than a marathon of Lifetime TV movies! In court papers she claimed Jay tried to break into her house, threatened to strangle her in the middle of the night and hang himself in her bedroom to prove they lived together.

She says they never had a romantic relationship. He says they did. She has given interviews, however, where she says they dated for a very short time before she was engaged to Jeff Beitzel, who is now deceased.

It’s a never-ending war of words between the Bravo star and her ex (or maybe not) lover.

Hook up the polygraph!

Now the Real Housewives of Orange County star is getting cozy with Slade Smiley.  The two were snapped Wednesday on a boat in Newport Beach applying suntan lotion on each other and kissing.  Slade was former O.C. Housewife Jo De La Rosa’s ex-fiancé. He also dated another ex-O.C. Housewife, Lauri Waring.

A party for Gretchen?

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